butterflies in your stomach?? Oh you have a crush !!

Crushes are sort of easy entry-ways into the world of strong emotions and relationships, without having much of the scary risk involved in really dating someone. People have crushes on their teachers, on actors, on band members, on scout leaders or pastors. Sometimes people have crushes on fellow students, but usually it's on a student that is several grades older.
Sometimes, feelings for a crush can be confusing because they're new to you and you aren't sure how to act. You could have mixed feelings. When you see your crush, a part of you might feel embarrassed and you might want to run away and hide. Another part of you might imagine your crush noticing you and sharing the same feelings. Some of you might just want to be friends with your crush.

HOW DO YOU KNOW YOU HAVE A CRUSH ??

• You love them yet you don't even know them.
• All you can think about is them and what if...
• You've planned your whole future.
• You lose the power of speech and co-ordination in their presence.
• Butterflies in your stomach.
• Pounding heart.
• You stammer/stutter something like "have you got the time?" at them.
• You imagine hours of conversations with them.

WHAT NOT TO DO ??

• • Don't talk about your crush around other people besides your best friend(s), one that you know will not tell anybody!   (WISH I READ THIS BEFORE..)
  • Never mess up on purpose; he will just start to think that you are really stupid!
  • RELAX. If you trip or do something else embarrassing, just laugh it off. He won't care too badly, and if he laughs AT you instead of WITH you, don't like him.

• HOW NOT TO ACT STUPID ?? ( you will always tend to act so..)

• Don't panic if you make a mistake or do something a little weird; just be yourself, and if he likes you for yourself than that's better than you having to turn into something you're not!
  NEVER, under ANY circumstances, think that you are stupid or that you are an idiot or anything like that!
  Make fun of whatever you did before somebody else does. Then the person can't make fun of you! However, don't overuse, as you might come off as self-conscious and unsure about yourself.
  Step back. Instead of word-vomiting, try to calm down and start asking Him questions. Then the risk of embarrassing yourself decreases.

HEARTBREAK:

It's hard to find out that the person you like doesn't feel the same way about you. You might feel sad, disappointed, and rejected. That sad feeling is called heartbreak, even though your heart isn't really breaking into pieces. If you feel 

heartbreak, those feelings can last for a while, but they will fade.

Another word about heartbreak: Try to be kind if you're on the other end of a crush — when someone likes you. It's a compliment when someone thinks you're special. If you don't feel the same way, try to and do tell him or her in a nice way.

HAS IT TAKEN ALL OVER YOUR MIND AND YOU BADLY WANT TO GET OUT OF IT ??

• Try not to tie yourself up in knots about this - you've set yourself up with a fantasy relationship, but that is all. The emotions feeding this fantasy can seem very real, but the advantage is you don't have to deal with the actual person. 
• On the practical side, try to fill the time you would otherwise spend thinking about your crush. Plan your day. Promise yourself some crush-free time, and set up a reward afterwards. Once you've defined the boundaries, a crush like this can be a positive experience. One that can set you up to deal with the emotional side of future, more realistic relationships.

IS IT OKAY TO HAVE CRUSHES ??

If you're involved in a crush - enjoy it! We have ALL had crushes over the years and they're something you look back on with great fondness. Look at what makes your crush special. Those qualities that you admire in your crush are qualities that are very special to you, and it's very important to learn what those are. It helps you when you look for a real boyfriend or girlfriend to date, to know what you are drawn to. 

CONCLUSIONS:

Maybe the thing to avoid isn’t the crush itself, it’s letting the crush control you.  If you find yourself becoming too infatuated with someone, take a step back, take a deep breath, and see if you really can list the reasons why you like someone.  If your answers don’t go beyond “he/she’s just so attractive,” then you might want to come to your senses.

Crushes are new and exciting, so enjoy them while they last. Someday, you'll be telling your own kids about your first crush!

p.s : for me it never goes beyond it.
p.s : source: all possible related sites.
p.s : this shows i can research on just 'nething.'
p.s : i prefer having unobtainable crushes, dating neone is so scary :P

p.s : in the memory of my latest crush, who now has a i-think-so girlfriend :).

love is

when you go insane
and he goes insane for you,

love is 

when you call him once 

and he keeps calling you,

love is 

when he is ready to forgive

before you ask for it,

love is 

when you don't believe

and he believes in you,

love is 

when you hide yourself

and he keeps looking for you,

love is 

when you aren't sure

and he gives all the faith to you

love is

when these feelings are true

love is

when its both him and you.

p.s : let me clear again:

      i am not in love :P :)

p.s : dedicated to the two cutest

      cutest pairs malvika-shakti

      anushka-abhishek.

p.s : got phy labtest tomorrow,someone enlightened me about this fact just now. thanx to fbchat.i need to study it now :)byee. 

keys.. :)

Gave you the keys to my heart..

You were the king in the cards..,

The keys are lost in your treasure heap,

While I'm waiting for you to open IT..;

Will the wait go on till eternity..??

courtesy: my wandering mind in boring digital class :P ;) 

p.s : let me clear : i am not in love :P :)

Actions speak LOUDER than words. They say, don’t SHOUT!!

‘How badly they want that change’ is what people talk behind but when it comes to making a change they say “Jhmele main kaun padega!!” Why the f*** were you talking all that crap all this time??timepass?? Or do you want a Socrates to be born every time for you and do something, then you silently see him drinking the poison later. Tears rolling down her eyes, she asked herself, Will I have to live with this all my life? They taught her to raise voice against the wrong, and each time she did so she was left all alone. Still gathering courage she did what she had decided, and found the ones for whom she fought, uninterested in the proceedings. It hurts badly, it hurts her deep inside. If they think she was not doing the right thing and the matter should be ended, why didn't  they tell in the first place? its YOU for whom she took all the trouble for, damn it!! Why are you so dumb now? Its been years, and she is still the same. After each incident, she retrospects, is she wrong ? should she not speak? May be keeping quite is not being selfish but being socially intelligent. But then these are petty matters. And what about keeping shut on larger issues too. Do you call that being SOCIALLY INTELLIGENT.

Its funny to see how, when a man is shot dead or a girl is raped, the same bunch of people react to the same situation at different positions in different ways.

When watching it on television, “GOD!! Nobody even cared to help!! Zamaana bada kharab hai aajkal, koi kisika nahi hai, i feel so pity for the man. Atleast someone could have taken him to a doctor.”

When at the site of incident, they are dumb spectators, filled with awe. When the man beside suggests, “i think we should help” they react,”Have you gone mad? it will lead us into deep trouble.”

On hearing that their relative is now into the matter, as he tried to help, “he is an idiot??, jyaada mahaan banne ka pada tha. If we get into trouble, we won’t spare him.”

When the man shot is his brother,”how could anybody NOT help!! Does nobody in this world have a heart? What if it was your brother!!?? What if it was YOU??”

If this last thought came to EVERYONE’S mind in the very first place, each time, You know what?? We will have an entirely different world to live in. A wonderful and a beautiful one.

Most people excuse themselves saying, “you don’t know; it’s me who will fall into trouble later." But the thing is:

The right people fall into trouble cause the others DON'T CARE. If you and everyone react or atleast support the same way you feel, they will never end up being in trouble and never will you fear being in any.

Its so astonishing to see most of us just talk about it. Living our lives cheating ourselves, cheating our words.

p.s : all moral science chapters should come with a cautionary warning: whatever said in this chapter is completely fictious. Most of them don’t  apply to the real world. Be ready to be called INSANE and STUPID if you apply them directly.

p.s : hats off to the makers of DAMINI, RANG DE BASANTI, and hats off to NDTV for solving the jessica murder case.

p.s : it would be so nice if the zeal that fills us after watching these movies got stuck in our minds forever, instead of just lingering for a few hours or days. :)

the LOST CITY found !!

Talking about aliens fills everyone with anxiety. Who won’t be thrilled with even the imagination of having people like us somewhere ‘up above the sky’? The scientists are continuously working to find evidences of life forms on MARS or any basic necessity for life-form to exist, since decades. Any minimal suspect of a molecule of H₂0 being found on MARS, becomes the headline of tomorrow’s newspaper all across the world. But, have we fully explored EARTH? No, is the obvious, unwillingly accepted, universal truth. 

Deep beneath the Atlantic Ocean, are weird chimney like tall structures, with extreme environment in all respects and extremes of temperatures.What is astonishing is that, sea crabs and other sea-creatures not only survive but actually depend on such extreme and poisonous biosphere. Oops!! it isn't Poisonous for them. A rare-biosphere with complete absence of oxygen and carbon-dioxide, composed of high density of methane and hydrogen, temperature of 76^oC,  and with water saltier than salt, is what they CAN’T live without. It is also completely devoid of Sunlight- believed to be the source of energy for any ecosystem. In 1970, discovery of BLACK SMOKER amazed the world. It was a place with life at deep sea depths with water boiling at high temperatures, but presence of carbon dioxide made the presence of life comprehensive. But metabolism of creatures living on hydrogen and methane remains a mystery. Unveiling this mystery can unfold mysteries of history of existence of life on EARTH, and strangely also on MARS ( methane has recently been discovered in atmosphere of MARS). We say, we are still untouched by the mysteries of the universe, but the fact remains that, earth is still an abyss of exploration for mankind. Lost city covers an area of about 3 lakh sq kilometres with chimney like structures ranging from 30 to 200 feet height, more surprisingly with huge population. We found one lost city, guess many more awaiting!!

Lost City was discovered during a National Science Foundation expedition in 2000 to Atlantic Ocean by UW oceanography professor and paper co-author Deborah Kelley and others.

p.s: what say abu a visit to the 'lost city' ??

p.s: this blog is goin to be flooded by such posts. pieces of science i collected over some teenage years.

p.s: i am learning to be completed (aah !! dont wrack ur brains on this, its a me to me talk) :)

Pen-down the circuit

Day: Friday morning.

Venue: Digital electronics lab.

I reached late; this has been the usual me this whole semester. My lab-mates were putting all their effort in constructing the digital circuit given on the xerox sheet. And I was too lazy to poke in, so all I did was, stared. Rajesh was enjoying his favourite work of cutting wires into required length, and the rest were all entangled in untangling the short-long connecting wires. I gazed at the bread-board, and this was the second time that it came to my mind – what a man the bread-board designer might be, to think of such an organized way to designing a neat and clean circuitry. Definitely, he hadn't an inch of clumsy me in himself. But still, this isn’t that comfortable. You aren’t sure whether the wires have been inserted in the holes properly or not. You can’t exactly figure out what the circuit is, as it doesn't resemble the schematic circuit you made with all those beautiful straight lines on paper. And then it struck, CIRCUIT-PEN. It would be NICE :) if we could DRAW the connecting wires which would actually conduct electricity (just like those thin lines impressed upon PCB boards). Wow!! Doesn’t it give the feel of having that ‘magic-pencil’ of ‘shaka-laka-boom-boom’ in your hand?? :)

DESIGN: This pen would have an out-case of a thick stylish pen, with metallic ink and heating circuitry inside it. The metallic ink must have feasibly low melting point and must remain solid at room temperature. Unfortunately tin/lead alloy (solder) does not seem feasible since it’s bouncy, due to high cohesion and so it will be difficult to ‘write’ with. The cross-section of opening will determine the resistance and the amount of current, drawn connecting wires can carry. This is  thankfully small in case of electronic circuits, and especially low for laboratory purposes. The pen would contain a battery for the heating circuit, preferably rechargeable. The base on which the circuit will be drawn can be the PCB sheet, which would as usual contain matrix of holes for fixing of ICs or any electronic component in it.

DRAWBACKS: This requires a new PCB sheet and the metallic ink every time, which was not in the case of breadboard and connecting wires. Also all the connections will be bare. However developing a cleaning mechanism, say by using a chemical which dissolves the metallic ink used, can make the PCB sheet reusable.

USE: Construction of practical circuits will be as easy as drawing it on paper and we can have a clear understanding of the circuit we made, hence avoiding loose connections, short circuiting, and making troubleshooting easier.

It’s wonderful to imagine how you push a button and it switches ON the heating circuit, heating the metal near the opening, resulting in smooth outflow of connecting liquid, and you DRAW the electronic circuit which actually works. Reality will be amazing. :) :)


p.s: my first technical post. yipee !!
p.s: the temperature factor was sandeep's(lab-mate) idea :).
p.s: electronics is not that bad, it will take time to be my love :P :)