Wednesday, August 26, 2026

Heartfully. Mindfully. Lovefully.



This post marks the beginning of a new phase of my life.

The first two weeks of August 2026 were magical.

I got to experience the metaphysical world—and myself—in a way I never had before.

It was incredibly difficult to come to terms with what I was experiencing. At the same time, I felt deeply grateful and blessed.

I kept asking myself:

“Do I even deserve this?”

I tried to think of everything I might have done right in my life to have been given this incredible opportunity—to experience myself beyond my physical form, and get a glimpse into what God and this beautiful creation really are.

The answer came:

“Yes you do! You are being rewarded for the tenacity to be extremely honest with yourself.”

Suddenly, the struggles, the naivety, the curiosity to understand every little detail of life, and the stubbornness to keep listening to the voice within me… all started to make sense.

“So all that pain and confusion led to this?” I asked.

The voice within said, “Yes.”

“Then the journey has indeed been incredibly beautiful,” I smiled.

When I started this blog, its description read:

“A soul heading on the path of self-discovery.”

Today, I have crossed the first stage of that discovery. It feels like a graduation ceremony.

And what better way to honour it than to reopen this blog, thank it for being my reflection, and acknowledge that it stayed with me while I went deeper within—and, at the same time, kept expanding my branches into the world outside.

I had been working hard on this journey for a long time, even though I often felt lost and unable to find direction.

The rock bottom of my life turned out to be a blessing in disguise.

It led me to a beautiful soul.

Her guidance helped me navigate the confusions of life and become someone who knows her worth, is aware of the self within, and is more deeply aware of the world outside.

And now, I’m writing down the routine below as an anchor—to help me find my way back whenever I notice myself drifting away from the path I’ve chosen.

Heartfully. Mindfully. Lovefully. ๐Ÿงก


Physical Wellness Routine

5:00 am - wakeup, freshen up, jeera ajwain water, work/prepare Arjun's Breakfast and tiffin

6.00 am - have fruits (small dotted banana, papaya, cucumber preferable, no citrus fruits) walk (barefoot to connect with earth element), exercise(lymphatic drainage, eye exercises, suryanamaskar, push up and rod hanging), pranayam (kriya yog), 10 min meditation

7:00 - wake Arjun up and rest of morning prep and send him to school

8:00 - bath, puja, trataka

9:00.am - breakfast

9:30a.m - sit for 2hr focus work shift, and have tea (eventual aim to move to herbal tea)

11:30am - transition continue work, attend maid, attend Arjun who is now back from school, 
            [no oil cooking, preferable masoor dal, rajma, any other dal, anything fibre rich, no oil/fat, soup, steamed veggies]

2:30-3:00pm - yog nidra

3:00pm - sit for 2/3hr focus work shift, lunch when hungry

6:00pm - puja, trataka, 1 bhajan

6:00pm - time with family, dinner, play, entertainment, misc tasks Arjun's homework, play, clothes organization, digital cleanups, cooking, kitchen prep for next day, light dinner

8:30pm - family moon gazing

9:30pm - be grateful, yog nidra (if possible), sleep 

Notes: 
1. Avoid deep fry, spicy
2. O
nce in a week massage with coconut oil/castor oil

Mental Wellness Routine

1. Pay attention to your intuition(the voice of your soul). Listening to it will help "you be the flow"

2. Above routine is only a prototype structure, every action above or otherwise in life needs to be done Heartfully, Mindfully, Lovefully

3. Practice patience, a lot of it.

4. Don't be moody or loose control over emotions. Emotions needs to be processed internally (or in safe spaces). 

5. Forgive others and yourself. No incident or person, should trigger anything within. If it does process it, acknowledge it, forgive them heartfully knowing not everything is in their hand just like you. Forgive yourself.

6. Do not come in path of other's divine journey by giving unnecessary advice until asked for. Also let them face the consequences of their actions, as that is the only path to growth. 

P.S. The purest form of healing and awakening is our Karma—the sincere effort and actions we put into life. Our thoughts and actions are the magicians we have been waiting to appear in our lives all along.

Lots of Love into the universe.

Happy Growing ! ๐Ÿชด

Saturday, February 6, 2021

Mornings and moments of epiphany and deciding to quit Facebook

Mornings and moments of epiphany and deciding to quit Facebook ( not that it matters but I love writing :) )

I took about a 2 year break from social media from 2018 to 2019
I needed to reflect back on myself and look inwards. I have always been an extrovert by nature.. but I started to realize that some of my extrovert traits are doing more harm to me than good. I looked within and did a lot of soul searching during this break time and these two years were the most transformational years of my life.
But then I itched to get to back, connect with the world and see updates from people that have once touched my life.. and finally decided to come back on social media.
However,
Facebook
as an application is not able to give me that experience anymore (and that's also what a lot of people are saying too).
Instagram
's blog format appeals a lot more to me.
So I have decided to quit Facebook starting tomorrow.
If you want to check my life updates (well I am a pretty interesting person you see ๐Ÿ˜‰) :
You can follow me on Instagram :
If we met through our work, you can add me on linkedin if we are not yet connected :
and youtube : my small little dance dairy :
Since I do have a lot of beautiful memories documented on Facebook. I will not be permanently deleting my account and will sneek into them once in a while ๐Ÿ™‚
Take care and have a beautiful life. ๐Ÿ™‚

Now that I am quitting Facebook, I have a feeling that this will be my station of expressing myself. 

Lets see. This is a casual post will format later :)

Tuesday, August 30, 2016

Sher-o-shayri - collection in the making


เคจिเค—ाँเคนें เคฎिเคฒाเค•เคฐ เคฌเคฆเคฒ เคœाเคจे เคตाเคฒे,
เคฎुเคे เคคुเคเคธे เค•ोเคˆ เคถिเค•ाเคฏเคค เคจเคนीं,
เคฏे เคฆुเคจिเคฏा เคฌเฅœी เคธंเค—เคฆिเคฒ เคนै,
เคฏเคนाँ เค•िเคธी เค•ो เค•िเคธी เคธे เคฎोเคนเคฌ्เคฌเคค เคจเคนीं |

Saturday, February 20, 2016

เคฆिเคฒ


เค…เคœीเคฌ เคธी เคฆเคถा เคนै เคฆिเคฒ เค•ी,

เคฌिเคจा เคชिंเคœเคฐे เค•ा เค•ैเคฆी เคนो เค—เคฏा เคนै... 

เค‰เฅœเคจे เค•ी เค–्เคตाเค‡เคธ เคฅी เคนเคฎेเคถा 

เค…เคฌ เคœเคฌ เคฎिเคฒा เคนै เค†เคธเคฎां เค–ुเคฒा ...

เคธเคนि -เค—เคฒเคค เค•ि เคฌेเฅœिเคฏों เคธे เคฌंเคงा เคนै  । 



 เคชी.เคเคธ : เค†เคœ เคฎเคจ เคนुเค† เคนिเคจ्เคฆी เคฎें เคฒिเค–ूँ :)
 เคชी.เคเคธ : เคฒिเค–เคจे เค•ुเค› เค”เคฐ เคฌैเค ी เคฅी, เคฒिเค–ा เค•ुเค› เค”เคฐ :D
 เคชी.เคเคธ : เค˜เคฐ เค•ि เคฌเคนुเคค เคฏाเคฆ เค†เคคी เคนै เค†เคœเค•เคฒ :(


Tuesday, September 29, 2015

On Cycling


I have been cycling all around in Bangalore on my khatara-pyaara second-hand over-priced cycle. Its been an elating experience to own such a perfect means of transport. The best part is that it can keep up with my energy level. I love when we criss-cross our way through the jammed traffic. On a cycle, you don't stop.. you figure new paths out. Have been missing on such a heavy dose of everyday happiness all these years. Its now that I realize :

Cycling is a joy unparalleled. :)



p.s : Not putting much effort in my posts. On a mission to cultivate the habit of being prolific. Will soon merge the two.
p.s: song of the day : Wo Sikandar he doston kehlata hai :D
p.s: because i love aamir ;)

Sunday, January 4, 2015

Endings and Beginnings



2014 had been a great year of self-exploration. From lot of readings, fitness sprees, cycling sprints to mini-marathons ; living alone allowed me to try out a platitude of things on one hand, and on the other hand made me realize the extent of emotional security human companionship provides.
Our emotional health quotient is a complex function of companionship and solitude.
Companionship is like food for heart. Whether good or bad you need it but of course, the better the quality of food the healthier your heart is.
Solitude is like dieting. It helps you maintain your food intake, cleanses your heart and helps it pump at its true potential. Excess of dieting lowers blood-pressure and leads to depressive emotions.
2014 had been a year of stronger family ties and deeper friendship bonds. Although scattered and not constructive, 2014 had also been a year of great learning. And what can be a perfect end to a year than getting to perform at two year-end parties. ^_^

2015 is not going to be a regular year. Either for the good or for the bad, this year is going to be decisive of what the rest of my life holds. It is its position on my lifeline that gives it this sense of urgency. There is a point when you can't let life just be and you feel this pinching need to figure things out, figure things so that each day is well lived and not just breathed. When you have that longing need for direction. When its a do or you will die situation. I wish myself all the best. :)
Wishing every creation on earth a very happy new year ! :)

p.s : travelling from kolkata to noida,
      got this post reviewed from my co-passengers. :)
p.s : posting from my new moto- G2 ;)
p.s : listening to 'hil dil k naacho naacho' :D